As a an affectionate mother, I spend a lot of time hugging my children. Although they are getting older, I still insist, (much to their embarrassment) on a hug before bed. My oldest soon is soon to be 17 and I sadly sense him shrinking away even refusing my hugs. I try not to let my hurt feelings show--I don't want hugs given out of guilt, I want "from-the-heart" hugs. Like so many others things, God began speaking and teaching me from my earthly parenting experiences, including the possibility of a "last hug."
I was born again 15 years ago, I too am a teenager, but in the kingdom! How many times have I refused to hug God because I'm just too old, too smart, too mature? How many times has He called me for time with Him, but I refused because feel I am too grown for His lap. "That's a nice place but let the young Christians sit there."
Or this conversation:
"Yes, I recognize Your voice. Isn't that proof that I know enough? Proof that I'm not a "kid" anymore?"
Beloved, never get too old for intimacy with God! Never be too grown up to raise your hands in worship. Your Father loves you. Never let Him experience a "last hug." Be in His lap as often and as long as you can.
--M.L. Bullock
Never get too busy for personal time alone with God. It’s easy to get so busy with the “work of God” that you forget the “God of the work.” Your personal relationship with Him must be maintained at the highest level. There are always distractions. When you refuse to slow down, your enemy will always multiply your activities, leaving no time to maintain a quality relationship with God.
Learn to say, “I’m sorry, but I’m not able to do what you’re asking.” Remain focused on areas most important to you, and your family. The price of supplementing “good works” for time alone with God is detrimental to so many areas of life. Nothing takes the place of quiet time alone with God.
These special moments build intangibles in us that produce qualities necessary for success in this journey of life. Perhaps it’s time to prioritize again our “to do” list. Refuse to give God time that is left over after everything else has been completed. Put Him first, and give your best time to God. It’s a decision you will never regret.
-Bishop Gerald Doggett